Tuesday, November 28, 2006

ppl....i'm back after a long break from my last entry...working life is boring but i must agree there are pros and cons in the working world. Working give us a stable income, working experience and need not worry abt exams etc...but on the other hand...it's really make my life so dull and grey...everyday was so routine...reach hm watch tv and by 12 my body clock is hinting me to knock off. Every week, i really look forward to friday as it mean my weekend off days is here....i get to meet up with my swordies to slack and have some heart to heart talking session...u gerls rocks..thanks for being there for me all these while...

It's been a while since i last hit town? Months? yeap Months...Awww so pathetic..pls save me from the cave....I shouting out to >>>>LIMARAN<<<< 21 =""> Vivocity Or Fareast....Shoe & Slippers From Mondo and ???=> Fareast.....Bags BAGS i need it so desperado.... i need a big straw bag and leather lookalike bags arghhhhhhhhh => FAreast....i miss u so muchhhhh... Accessories as well =>Topshop, Forever 21 and Diva..... I wanna go to these places...pls grant me my wish this coming decemeber....... Tee hee hee...i gt a 20% off for topshop products becos it is my bdae month....so let get started this early December....

Last bt not least in my shopping list....i gonna change my pathetic VGA phone...finally....Samsung d900 i'm coming....so pls be patient ya....you will be the first item i will rush to once i gt my hard earn pay....i hope my bonus would come together with it as well...haha but i doubt so...lol.... I wanna get the one shown below....middle design hehe...



All right shall update on my last week programmes...Basically, Met up with the swordies last friday to celebrate Huishan's birthday... Happy Sweet 20th birthday Miss Police "Jin Cha" Pls dun arrest me for bringing u bad luck last friday..i think is angie that bring us the suayness becos THE blardy DAMN CINEMA DIE ON US THAT FRIDAY Nite at Tampines Mall. We really wanna watch the Happy feet with you...bt Power failure hit us that nite...arghhh i feel so guilty....But hope you like that jacket we've gt for you...Love it? haha

Cuties cat found at Changi Village Cove while we girls are having our heart to heart toking session ....She realli look like Garfield haha

Sorry have to resort to stealing of the collage again....kuku...nv send to me hah....so sorry limaran pls do not ask huishan to catch me...okie i noe is nt funnie lol...cold~~~~

Hilarious laughter presented from Me and Angie...all credits to Limaran and wenyan...Thanks for yr candid shots ya...lol....

Before

After (Short Fringe)

Btw I cut my hair once again..this time round is really damn short can...Omg....before i went to sunny,wenyan told me she may not want to go bac to sunny anymore...i was like why???...Now i understood her reason...damn it my fringe is now so short lo!!! So upset...arghhhh I force myself to smile (ABove)

Me:Hey sunny i wanna trim and maintain my hair length

Sunny: Okie no problem...

Sunny: How abt the fringe

Me: Abit only

So he went on to trim my hair and cut my fringe, but before i can react he has already cut almost 3/4 of my fringe away...OMG..i was like F......

Sunny: hey....yr fringe abit short hor...laugh it off!!!!

I was like DIaoz....what can i do...i can' t turn bac time... pissed man

This is the first time i felt so disappointed with him, i say trim hair but he literally cut off my hair till so short....i swear it would be months before i go bac to him...i need like a few months to grow bac my long fringe once again...so sad...ARGHHHHH....Pls knock mi off bah

Though the pics do not show much difference...but if u were to see me in real person...my hair realli look so "goondoo"...I am devastated...

goodbye people...will be bac with more pics...Looking forward To angie So call "birthday BASh But pls do not bash her up party" => Hey angie not funny at all...HAHA...

Friday, November 17, 2006

One of the pitfalls for all human beings is that we tend to go unconscious with anything that is routine in our life, including our partner. No matter how wonderful they may be, given time we tend to take our loved ones for granted. Don't forget to love the people in your life every day! This world is full of tales of people who only when faced with the loss of a loved one discovered how much more they wish they had expressed.

Make the people in your life the priority, not the other stuff! If you have ever lost a loved one you understood instantly that all that other stuff wasn't really all that important at all. Make it your priority every day to love the people in your life all out. This will help you guard against falling asleep and taking each other for granted.We don't have as much time in this life as we may think and you never know when it's the last time you will see a loved one. I recommend loving with a sense of urgency and not taking your time with a significant other for granted! I say this not to scare you but to wake you up; we all can use a reminder from time to time.

Unexpressed Anger/Hurt FeelingsOver time, withheld anger and hurt feelings cover up our ability to feel our love for another human being. Part of being honest is expressing to your partner what you are mad or hurt about (without being mean or abusive). Conversely, be willing to allow your partner to share their feelings of anger and hurt with you. I know it can be challenging to listen to at times. Yet in any relationship feelings are going to get hurt and people are going to get mad. The ability to express and listen to hurt feelings and anger and get over them is critical to having a long term fulfilling relationship. I know expressing anger and hurt feelings can sometimes be taboo in our culture. But people can get over being hurt or mad, it's far from the end of the world. In fact, once you have experienced staying with another human being while they are hurt or mad at you and eventually getting to the other side, you will discover that this can be quite a gift to your relationship. In fact you are likely to experience a new level of intimacy and love in your relationship. Since this is an area that many of us have never been taught how to deal with, it may be best to find a skilled mediator, counselor, or therapist for the first time, particularly for coaching in how to keep your anger clean and non- abusive. Lastly, remember the idea of expressing your anger or hurt feelings is to get over them, not to punish, blame or belittle your partner.

When expressing anger, keep it simple. Leave your story and blame out! Say, "I don't like what you said or did." Be specific; don't add extra venom. Example: "I didn't like when you said I was a lazy bum," or "I didn't like that you went out without calling me." Again, the idea isn't to make the other person wrong but to rather get over your anger/hurt so you can love them again.

Extracted from: Wisdom Article

Ya Man I dO look tired....haha just post for fun lol!!!


Haha P-Plate
hOORAY I passed my TP on my first strike...Really thanks everyone who took out some of their time by smsing me or encouraging me in person...Thank you peeps...you guys rock my world...
Was simply so delighted afterwhich i got my results...the tester was a very frenly and direct guy...

He would even correct my mistake when i am doin my test but he din even deduct points unnecessary.... Just when i sat down with him at the tester room...he just simply smile at me saying "You Passed" Omg.... The feeling was like so shiok...wahaha finally all my stress for the past few months is finally over...i've gt my birthday wish....Really thanks everyone even the weather man for blessing such a clear weather for me to take the test.

No More burning my pockets with my hard earn money anymore....yippe... i would like to thank for instructor David Leong...Though i would always complain how you scold for no reasons...blah blah etc...Bt i'm really appreciate yr help in helping me to attain my driving license...heheheh...may god bless you with good heath ya...

Last bt not least... my darling Daddy..Thanks for being with me all these while..listening to my complains after every driving lesson...but u were there to console me and taught me....You were there to accompany and mentally supporting me while patiently waiting at the driving centre anxiously waiting for my results...hehehehe...i still owe u a steamboat session and 3 in 1 package ya? hahaha..Thank you daddyy...Muack Muacks....

Monday, November 13, 2006

Here am i blogging away with my mind constantly counting down to my driving test day tomolo. Arghh..if i say i am not nervous i would be lying to myself... Dear friends...pls pray hard for me....

I've only one birthday wish this coming Dec...And it is to get my driving license on this fateful day of Nov 14 2006. Just hope everything would go on smoothly...have been practising for the past 2 daes, however, i would still make those unnecessary and serious mistake like striking the kerb or hit the kerb...omg pls pls pls save me.....i really hope everything would go on well for me...I jus hate vertical parking and those irritating crank course...arghhhhhh.....

Waiting for miracle to happen....today evening will be my last driving practice, i would treat it as my prelim exam...practice does make it perfect? I really hope it does.... And of course Driving is expensive too... it really burned a big hole in my pocket and i shall declare bankrupt even before this month end....

Tick Tock Tick Tock... shall wait for the good news soon ya...boo hoo...cya peeps...Praying hard

Monday, November 06, 2006

Beautiful Love
Happy 8th Month My sweetest Darling!!! Muack

Friday, November 03, 2006

My Blog has been lagging for the past few dae, Boring to the max...uploading of pictures require 3 days to publish...that hw lag blogspot is....pisssed..nonetheless, i'm blogging while working again...haha bt today is friday so slack for a while mean no harm ya? haha...oops!!! :]

Darn it man, nowadays i think i would just blog one time every month just to update on my pathetic life...everyday was like so tired, tired & tired....i really miss those daes of slacking, mahjong 2 times a week, playing netball on a regular basis, catching up with friends etc...Sorry Goh Yu Ping...dun meant to put Aeroplane that dae...was really having a bad cramp...i promise i won't fly kite again ya.... haha

erm just a brief update for the past few weeks....pics has been uploaded below....has been partying for the previous 2 weeks... 1st week was dragged by limaran to go zouk....bt i did enjoy myself as the crowd was not bad...drank quite abit too....haha...

The following week was threatened by Ben the army boi....he say things that netball training and driving are more impt than his birthday party...once again i had no choice bt to skip my long awaited training and head down to zouk again...awww...that how hard i can't say a "No" to friends...however, i'm happy for him la...i can see he enjoyed himself alot as all his close buddies are there to celebrate for him before he has to bid goodbye to the civilian life and say "Helloo" to the Army life...wahahaha...Ben do take care while in the army...u slacker pest D...wahaha....Thanks for inviting me to yr party ya...gt wasted so early lol...

Life has been going on smoothly for me...working has expose me to the real life...looking at things which not many ppl would come across with....I must really say tertiary school life is really an impt role in preparing us for the working world....now i finally understand why lecturers are so serious with peer appraisal of group members and the way we work as a team...because right in the working world, everyone is selfish by nature......politics are everywhere....i'm just like the frog who has been in the well for the past 19 years....and is only until recently i manage to climb out of it and are seeing the real working life....it really sucks to see why human beings are behaving in such a way...why can't everyone be satisfy with what they have and most importantly loyal to their partner?...hmmm...that how life is meant to be....just hate some egoistic guys who are two timing their wife....that very unfair for the gals out there....so gals pls protect yrself and be more selfish at times...haha....(Hmm just joking)

anyway....daddy donutie...3 more daes and is our 8th months...hmm...just wanna say at times i know some factors are affecting our r/s bt i really hope all these bad days will soon be over ya? Communication is really very important in every r/s hehe...u knw what i mean....Nonetheless, Thanks for been there mentally and emotionally...Looking forward to our next Genting Trip...Haha where my buffet treat? lol...

i shall end my blogging here....shall update on the ben's bdae party pic real real soon...cya..